big big big hugs. and i get it, when people shifted off of tumblr, it all moved everywhere and I cannot keep up (and I am still on tumblr). I really don't like pillowfort - I haven't given it the fairest shake to be sure but something about it just does not work for me. And discord just has too many voices at once. i don't do well at group chat/posting. i'm trying to be a little more active here with hit or miss results.